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Tuesday, April 14, 2026

Update: Extraordinary Wielder of Words—Terrance Niedziela Jr.

 by TLC Nielsen


I met Terrance at a large writing conference in North Carolina and we ended up in the same swordsmanship class for authors. In his interview on the EO blog in 2022, found here, Terrance talked about his journey of teaching and writing. Here's the scoop on this wielder of words.

Welcome back to the Extraordinary Ordinary blog, Terrance!

Thank you, TLC, for inviting me to give an update on my writing journey. 

Since being interviewed by you, God has been so gracious to me. He opened the door to be a regular contributor to the men's devotional blog, The Man Cave. Six of my devotions have been published in books you can find on Amazon. All proceeds from book sales support education for kids living in the garbage dumps of Guatemala as well as rebuilding in Jamaica after the last hurricane.

In October 2025, I signed with Dressed In Love LLC. I've dreamed of signing with a publisher and things came together when I least expected it. My writing mentor, Katherine Hutchinson-Hayes, started her own publishing company, and when other avenues fell through for me, she offered for me to sign with her company. After praying about it, I agreed. 

They will be releasing my debut fantasy novel, Tales of Aras: Becoming Fire and Lightning, at the beginning of June 2026. What started as a short story for my youngest sister's seventeenth birthday grew into a complex world of diverse cultures, epic battles, intrigue, mind-blowing creatures, and villains so horrible they make you love to hate them. 

This is the first book in a trilogy. Between each of the books, I plan to publish standalones that cover the backstory of secondary characters in the story. I'm neck deep in a book I hope to release early next year.

In addition to writing, I am finishing my eighth-year teaching seventh-grade English. This year, I ran the creative writing club at school. I enjoy seeing the creativity of the students and helping them grow in their craft.

April 2026 marked the fourteenth anniversary of my moving to South Carolina. It doesn't seem like it's been that long! My wife and I celebrated thirteen years of marriage last year and we now have three dogs, all foster fails. 

Things are moving along, and I look forward to seeing what happens in the years to come.

Check out Terrance and Tales of Aras on social media:

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Facebook

Goodreads

Amazon

Thanks for visiting the Extraordinary Ordinary blog, where people like you and I share our extraordinary stories!


Sunday, March 31, 2024

Extraordinary Healthy Living by TLC Nielsen

Charlaine Martin is the owner of Be Totally Fit for Life. She loves to help individuals and groups glorify God through stewardship of the bodies in her Healthy Lifestyles program. Her commitment to health and Christian wellness comes as she pursues God through her own unique health journey. I met this resilient lady over ten years ago and was so impressed that I joined several of her healthy living groups online. I've been encouraged seeing God's handiwork through Char and the ministry to which He's called her.

Welcome to the Extraordinary Ordinary blog, Charlaine, where regular folks like you and me share their extraordinary adventures!


Q) Char, how has your own personal health adventure guided you into your healthy living work?

First, thank you for inviting me to share Healthy Lifestyles with your followers! I had no idea my fitness career would take me this way, but God had a better plan than I did. I had no idea that I would find myself living with fibromyalgia, mixed collagen vascular disease, celiac disease, and multiple allergies. When I first began teaching water exercise and Arthritis Foundation exercise classes for seniors with various issues, God was setting a foundation for Be Totally Fit for Life's healthy lifestyles program. 

As my health changed, I had to apply the same principles of personal stewardship to my life. My body is not my own, it was bought at a price through Christ. In order to honor God in autoimmunity, I eat healthy, low-inflammatory foods, practice low-impact exercise, and work with my healthcare providers to serve God, my family, and my community. I teach others how to put personal stewardship principles into practices they can incorporate into their own lives. Ephesians 2:10 guides us in the Healthy Lifestyles groups.

Q) What main hurdle did you encounter along the way and what was the outcome?

Wow! God showed me that everything I have and whatever I do comes from Him. I had to yield my will to His when I found myself with so many limitations. Every breath, every step, and literally everything comes from God. I am not my own! I had to grieve losses of everything I loved about being physically capable of doing—things like Russian-style kettlebells, functional training, and HIIT exercise. I had to let it go. The ability to do those things with ease and grace all came from God.

Now I swim, do water exercise, modified bodyweight exercise, and cycling for shorter distances. I've adjusted my eating patterns to include gluten-free, allergy-friendly food options with more organics. If I didn't, I would do so much damage to my body. I've discovered that by being a part of disease-specific groups, I function considerably better than most. I'm allowing God to lead me in these healthy choices so I can write and be part of ministries at church while caring for family and friends. 

Q) When did you realize Tai Chi needed a Christian counterpoint and why?

About three years ago, I'd taught PraiseMoves, the Christian alternative to Yoga and wondered if there were any alternatives to Tai Chi out there. I found one, but it came from Tai Chi itself and some of what was practiced still had Eastern religious roots. There wasn't much out there, so I started playing around with what is now ChiRho Flow. 

Last year, I realized I needed to start teaching it online. There are several class members. Unfortunately, my health conditions sometimes cause me to cancel classes occasionally. Right now, classes are on hold while my doctors and I chase down some cardiac symptoms that are connected with autoimmune issues. Thankfully, I've been doing classes on YouTube so that class members can go back through past workouts. My plan and prayerfully God's plan is to begin certifying instructors so ChiRho Flow's future isn't dependent solely on me.

Q) How do you work with churches along with individuals?

Churches can contact me to set up Healthy Lifestyles programs and ChiRho Flow classes via an online forum. I can also train leaders from within their churches to lead and guide them. They can email me to start that conversation. (See links at the end.)

Individuals will usually see posts on social media announcing groups, classes and coaching for Healthy Lifestyles. They can fill out a form at my website if interested and they can make special requests regarding totally healthy living and Christian wellness. I will be offering my Adventures with God, using my new Christian Wellness Journal in April on Facebook, in a unique closed group with videos and discussions that groups members can access at times convenient for them. 


Q) Who influenced you the most in your healthy lifestyles journey?

Honestly, there is not just one individual. I've gained inspiration from gym members, clients, class members, supervisors, and colleagues. One man stands out, though. He was in his late 70s and had gone into cardiac arrest. Paramedics revived him, and he spent quite a while in the hospital. When his doctor released him to exercise at the gym, I welcomed him back when I saw him. He told me, "It's such a privilege to be here! Not everyone can say that."

Q) I noticed you were one of the presenters in the Healthy Living Summit this year—how did that turn out?

I'm privileged to teach a workshop at the Healthy Living Summit with some fantastic, talented Christian women this second year! Last year went really well. Participants loved my practical tips for making healthy food swaps and integrating exercise into their daily routines. I have 45 women in my workshop this time.

For this year, I felt God nudge me to teach about Christian Wellness because so many Christian women are beaten down in life. Many have unknowingly integrated New Age practices without realizing these draw them away from God rather than closer. I've received glowing feedback from those who have hear my message. Women can still participate by watching the recorded sessions for several weeks afterwards, but there is a fee since the Summit has ended. Here's the link.

Q) How has your health and wellness ministry changed since I've been involved?

Good question! I backed off for awhile because I burned out with it. But I have shifted more toward proactive agers taking care of their health, to do more for longer. I help them consider their health conditions when they are frustrated with weight loss and redirect their focus to healthy living. The ministry aspect is woven throughout. I find myself helping them recognize the false promises of the New Age movement and putting Jesus back at the center of their lives.

I've also changed the way I work with groups. Healthy Lifestyles did well for a lot of people, but it became outdated. I do updates for churches that continue to use this program. Currently, I'm inviting people to use the Christian Wellness Journal I created. We work from what they already know, but more emphasis is on integrating classical Christian disciplines. They still work on goals, make healthy swaps and find ways to work in fitness. People are gathering now for it starting April 2nd.

Q) What's one surprising thing about you? 

Hmmm. I think it is that I'm a nerd. Most health and fitness pros were the cheerleaders, athletes, and social butterflies. Certainly, I've been a martial artist since 1996 and a swimmer since 2000, but these are individual sports which works for a nerd like me. Because of the traits that go with nerdiness, I look at individuals' needs to help them from an analytical perspective as I help them solve problems and create solutions. I'm also not one to follow the crowd, so I assist people to look outside the box and connect with God at a deeper level.

Thank you for reading the EO blog, finding the EXTRA in the ordinary. Please contact Charlaine Martin on her website or on social media.

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzWs2-S1nqsZh-kyFlFH5aQ
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/betotallyfitforlife/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/charlainemartin84/?hl=en
Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/charlainmartin/
Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/stores/Charlaine-Martin/author/B08YRVPSMS?ref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

Monday, February 28, 2022

Extraordinary Design by TLC Nielsen

I met Abby Calinog-Herrington at the local library, both of us interested in the book sale of the Friends of the Library. Before long, we were both volunteering together at the library and sharing each other's interesting stories of life. Abby, it turns out, has an Etsy store on top of working, going to school, and being a Bookstagrammer.

Welcome to the Extraordinary Ordinary blog, Abby!

Q) What came first, your Etsy store Made By Gail Shop or your Bookstagram, herlife_herbooks?

My Bookstagram (herlife_herbooks) came first! I created a bookstagram after going to my first Friends of the Grayslake Library Book Sale a few years ago. I went on the last day. I got a big bag for just $5 and I was SO happy. I started the bookstagram that day.

I started painting and drawing at a really young age. And then I got into photography. I always wanted to open my own business. It started with wanting to open my own bakery and then a bookstore. Most recently, I combined the two ideas and now want to open a combination of both. But that idea will not come to fruition for a few years from now. I always thought Etsy was a really good platform for small businesses. So I took my love for photography and art and started a small business—Made by Gail.


Q) How did you get into designing stickers, by the way?

The first stickers I released are actually photographs of flowers. These are photos I took myself and thought, "I want this as a sticker." But I couldn't find what I was looking for anywhere. So I thought I would create it myself, now here we are with a little Etsy shop for stickers, with stickers I've sketched and photographed myself. 

Q) How would you describe your design process for the stickers you sell as well as your sketches?

Honestly, for my design process, it is a little wonky. If I get a chance to sit down for a few hours, I will either sketch or read. A lot of the time, I would rather read. But when I am sketching, my inspiration comes from the things around me, and it is also based on the weather and the season. Right now, the main theme of my shop is floral and summery. But in the fall, I did have some pumpkin stickers to match the occasion. If I think it's cute and other people will think so too, then I add it to my shop.

Q) You're juggling school and your Etsy business. How do you manage your time?

I do not manage my time as well as I would like. Right now, I have a full-time job. I work 40 hours a week. I try to have set days to sit down and do homework afterward. My position at work is a remote work from home position so that does make it easier to do homework on the side or get an order packed and shipped out during a break. It also makes it easier to quickly interact with customers during the day, since I do not have a supervisor.

Q) What catch phrase(s) captures you?

Books=Life
A reader lives a thousand lives.
Have a break. Have a KitKat.

Q) What's next for you, personally and business-wise?

Business-wise, I would love to add apparel to my Etsy Shop, but I'm not sure when that can be done. Right now, I'm working on some bookmark designs to add.

Personally, I'm not sure! I'll be graduating with my Bachelor's in Business Management with a minor in Computer Science and Information Systems—this May. I'm not sure what I'll do after.

Q) Please tell us something unexpected about yourself.

Some unexpected things about me are that I do not know how to swim, and I am under 5 feet tall.


You can shop at Abby's Made By Gail Shop on Etsy or check out her Bookstagram!


Thanks for visiting TLC's Extraordinary Ordinary blog, where folks with out-of-the-ordinary tales share their stories! Please leave a comment.
 

Monday, January 31, 2022

UPDATE: Extraordinary Touch—Reflexology by Melanie

Welcome Back, Melanie!

Since restarting my blog late in 2021, I wanted to do updates on several folks who were featured on the Extraordinary Ordinary blog. Here's the link to Melanie's original interview: Extraordinary Touch—Reflexology by Melanie. I've found reflexology to be a mainstay for me to stay healthy, and I really enjoy the new location in Antioch, Illinois.

A New for Reflexology by Melanie

My practice is growing and staying strong. I now have two massage therapists working with me in my current Antioch location. They are both very good. MaryAnn and Leslie Ann are two very different kinds of therapists. This gives clients a variety of options.

I plan on returning to school this spring to finish up my nutrition coaching certification. This will add to my ability to help others. I'm hopeful that 2022 will be a safe and healthy year!

Find Melanie here:

For appointments, please check out Melanie's site on Square.

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